Both of you will try to dominate each other and you will end up with quarrels, misunderstandings and fights. Yet the facts that are used to calculate these numbers remain staticвЂ”you still have the same date of birth and the same name. If his name is also defective, you have to correct his name to suit yours as per name numerology before you marry him. " The meaning of the name when spelled this way would be highly mystical and spiritual, but not as inclined toward luckiness. If a person is born into the life of the number nine, they are here to learn to be understanding of others and to work toward the common good of all. though even then, such forces CAN be a deadly menace through accidental misuse. In addition, the eleventh sign of the zodiac, Aquarius stands for determination in helping others through pouring out one's faith as water and providing a vision to the otherwise parched world. You can even use important dates in your life like, your wedding anniversary, or any special date that has a special importance in your relationship. The calculation of the secondary number is slightly difficult than that of the primary number.